tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4421370739138896383.post1940769799568219962..comments2017-03-24T07:50:43.983-07:00Comments on Winner at the Losing Game: perdidohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09325564420001013952noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4421370739138896383.post-35535527792116670912014-09-30T19:46:44.205-07:002014-09-30T19:46:44.205-07:00I have read your past few posts - and wanted to co...I have read your past few posts - and wanted to comment, but can't seem to find the words. It's hard - all of this parenting stuff is. Parenting kids who have gone through something that you feel you should have been able to protect them from, is really hard. But it doesn't make you less of a mother. You are doing what you can for her, you are getting her the help she needs, and being there for her - and even though it probably doesn't seem like it's doing a whole lot of good - I am confident that somehow, it will be enough. Why? Because it has to be. You are a great mother because you are doing all that you can for your daughter, even when you don't know what to do. Keep up the good work. You will both get through this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4421370739138896383.post-33676552169427157672014-09-30T14:31:08.699-07:002014-09-30T14:31:08.699-07:00I keep reminding you--none of this is your fault. ...I keep reminding you--none of this is your fault. Put the blame clearly on the man who cause it--okay? K may be making stuff up--I had a therapist try really hard to convince me my father had sexually abused me. He abused me verbally and with whippings and she was SURE he had violated me sexually. Never happened, but with her insisting--it made my life miserable for awhile trying to remember the incidents she insisted had happened. So--you just never know. K may be using this to gain more sympathy or more attention--or it could very well be true. You probably will never know for sure.Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.com