One of the most profound things I ever read about relationships to determine if it's healthy is if your partner is an anchor around your ankle dragging you down or lifting you up. If it's dragging you down then you need to stop and reevaluate. Truth.
I'm not gonna say things are going good because I'm afraid of jinxing it (but I'm sure you can read between the lines). I mean there are definitely still alot of problems but I'm hopeful for the future - again. Sometimes I wonder like another blogger I read how many times you can keep picking yourself up after your life gets flattened again, but I guess the answer is as long as it takes.
YAY! I definetely have had the dragger downers--why we put up with that kind for so long is--because we have low self esteem and no self confidence. We think so little of ourselves that we think, they are the best we are gonna get or deserve. WRONG!!!! Takes a long time to figure that out. As for being down, flattened, and getting back up again--what other choice? Besides, living a half way decent and happy life is the purish revenge to the dragger downers! :-)
ReplyDeleteI spelled that wrong--not purish, but purest!!! I need to go to bed, LOL
ReplyDeletethanks Judy and yes sad but true about thinking that but I'm working on it!!! Have a great weekend!
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